Mix & Match sexuality

Plea for help

can any one of you following me please please help me find a job in canada, uk or the usa. please. i am in india but cannot take it anymore. i feel like i will do something drastic if i stay here, not able to take a step forward on my transition

i read, write and speak good english (i used to be a writer) which is why i ask for these three countries.

i could try and transition in india but there is too much pressure - negative pressure. friends, family. a lot of family.  and india’s current track record of treating women - even cis women - isn’t great. 

i dont know what else i can do.

"In general, I think it’s important for communities to self-represent, or other people who are essentially outsiders tell your stories,” says Shine Louise Houston, a pornographer. “So in that sense, it’s taking back the power of the visual narratives."

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http://manifestamagazine.com/2013/04/24/how-to-make-a-feminist-porno/comment-page-1/

It’s a nice article. 

Love the boots. :)

Yes. boots. lol I also like the boobs, but boots did it for me here. :

2571) When I take a shower, I shave everything (arms, legs, armpits, chest, “down below”). It makes me feel more feminine about myself, and it helps me relax. I feel like my future self, even though I am a long way from hormones.

"For a constructed vagina to be considered acceptable by surgeons specialized in intersexuality, it basically just has to be a hole big enough to fit a typical-sized penis. It is not required to be self-lubricating or even to be at all sensitive, and certainly does not need to change shape the way vaginas often do when women are sexually stimulated. So, for example, in a panel of discussion of surgeons who treat intersexuality, when one was asked, ‘How do you define successful intercourse? How many of these girls actually have an orgasm, for example?’ a member of the panel responded, ‘Adequate intercourse was defined as successful vaginal penetration,’ All that is required is a receptive hole."

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 Alice Domurat Dreger (2004) “Ambiguous Sex”—or Ambivalent Medicine? (137-153) In Health, Disease and Illness.  (via pipipiripiripi)

So I think I may not get a vagina after all. not if doctors this dumb want to do it.