Mix & Match sexuality

Plea for help

Fri, 17 May 2013 21:25:32 +0100

can any one of you following me please please help me find a job in canada, uk or the usa. please. i am in india but cannot take it anymore. i feel like i will do something drastic if i stay here, not able to take a step forward on my transition

i read, write and speak good english (i used to be a writer) which is why i ask for these three countries.

i could try and transition in india but there is too much pressure - negative pressure. friends, family. a lot of family. and india’s current track record of treating women - even cis women - isn’t great.

i dont know what else i can do.

love the legs becky

Thu, 09 May 2013 21:53:21 +0100

love the legs becky

"In general, I think it’s important for communities to self-represent, or other people who are..."

Fri, 03 May 2013 16:13:36 +0100

““In general, I think it’s important for communities to self-represent, or other people who are essentially outsiders tell your stories,” says Shine Louise Houston, a pornographer. “So in that sense, it’s taking back the power of the visual narratives.””

- http://manifestamagazine.com/2013/04/24/how-to-make-a-feminist-porno/comment-page-1/

It’s a nice article.

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Fri, 26 Apr 2013 21:28:58 +0100

Love the boots. :) Yes. boots. lol I also like the boobs, but...

Thu, 18 Apr 2013 18:52:15 +0100

Love the boots. :)

Yes. boots. lol I also like the boobs, but boots did it for me here. :

can i be this girl now? please???

Mon, 08 Apr 2013 19:29:27 +0100

can i be this girl now? please???

2571) When I take a shower, I shave everything (arms, legs, armpits, chest, "down below"). It makes me feel more feminine about myself, and it helps me relax. I feel like my future self, even though I am a long way from hormones.

Sat, 06 Apr 2013 20:47:51 +0100

"For a constructed vagina to be considered acceptable by surgeons specialized in intersexuality, it..."

Sat, 30 Mar 2013 19:04:38 +0000

“For a constructed vagina to be considered acceptable by surgeons specialized in intersexuality, it basically just has to be a hole big enough to fit a typical-sized penis. It is not required to be self-lubricating or even to be at all sensitive, and certainly does not need to change shape the way vaginas often do when women are sexually stimulated. So, for example, in a panel of discussion of surgeons who treat intersexuality, when one was asked, ‘How do you define successful intercourse? How many of these girls actually have an orgasm, for example?’ a member of the panel responded, ‘Adequate intercourse was defined as successful vaginal penetration,’ All that is required is a receptive hole.”

- Alice Domurat Dreger (2004) “Ambiguous Sex”—or Ambivalent Medicine? (137-153) In Health, Disease and Illness. (via pipipiripiripi)

So I think I may not get a vagina after all. not if doctors this dumb want to do it.

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Sun, 10 Mar 2013 21:25:45 +0000

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Thu, 07 Mar 2013 20:21:22 +0000

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Thu, 07 Mar 2013 20:19:16 +0000

ladyboylovin: Hottest Shemales

Thu, 07 Mar 2013 19:45:51 +0000

ladyboylovin:

Hottest Shemales

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Mon, 04 Mar 2013 18:21:31 +0000

me, on secondlife. the top photo - of me in a saree sitting -...

Sun, 03 Mar 2013 20:23:06 +0000

me, on secondlife.

the top photo - of me in a saree sitting - is kind of very close to how i look in rl except i dont think i can quite carry that saree off lol. i still need to practice wearing and walking the saree.

hausofandrejpejic: Meet the models breaking the mould The...

Sun, 03 Mar 2013 10:19:44 +0000

hausofandrejpejic:

Meet the models breaking the mould

The male/female model: Andrej Pejic

At the age of 14, Andrej Pejic liberated himself. For years, he had tried to be a conventional boy – he’d stopped playing with Barbies, he’d started to wear baggy clothes and caps, he’d even had a go at Aussie rules football. But it just didn’t seem right, and the more laddish he tried to be, the more the other boys called him gay or a girl.

So he went with his instincts. “Liberation came in a bottle of bleach,” he laughs. Out went the sandy-brown hair, in came the blond bombshell. To some he was a ridiculously beautiful girl, to others he was an even more ridiculously beautiful boy. He was happy to occupy an androgynous halfway house that defied definition.

Pejic has always felt something of an outsider. He was born in Bosnia to a Bosnian Serb mother and Croat father. When he was two months old, civil war and ethnic cleansing ruptured the country. His father’s family no longer welcomed his mother, his mother’s family no longer welcomed his father. His mother (then a judge, now a teacher) fled to Serbia with Andrej, his older brother and their grandmother, where they lived in a refugee camp. Meanwhile, his father, an economist, obtained a divorce without their knowing.

“The most traumatic thing I remember is the Nato bombings,” he says. “I was seven and there were bombs falling close to us. Everybody lived in fear.”

At eight, the family moved to Australia. He was a girly boy in the ultimate macho land. “As I got older, I saw the differences in the way men behaved, and I tried to suppress my feminine side – but it wasn’t a perfect act. People noticed that in the playground.”

It was when he dropped the act that Pejic began to feel at ease with himself. “I acquired a lot more friends, became more social and I didn’t get bullied. So the way I look now is the way I looked from 14/15.”

How did his mum react when he adopted his androgynous look? “I wouldn’t say she was the most forward-thinking, modern woman. In the beginning she was scared for my safety. But the most important thing to her was for me to be happy and healthy.”

Do lots of straight men accidentally hit on him? “Story of my life! Never really gay men. I think I was always too feminine.” How do heterosexual men react when they realise he is a man? “A lot are shocked. They’re never aggressive and a good percentage are even more interested.” Do girls fancy him? “Yeah. I definitely get both sides.”

He thinks of himself neither as gay nor straight. “For me, love has no boundaries. I’m not an extremely sexual person, but I am romantic.” He doesn’t object to the word transgender, but says it isn’t accurate – he has no desire to be a woman. Androgynous, he says, best sums it up. “I’m pretty happy with how I am now.” When Pejic was growing up, David Bowie was an influence, as were British new romantics such as Boy George and Pete Burns. Pejic turned down a place at law school to pursue modelling. At some point he hopes to take up law again.

In the two years he has been modelling, Pejic has created his own niche – he can model as man, woman or nonspecific. He was discovered when working at McDonald’s. Did the agent think he was a man or woman? “I don’t know – he never said.” Although the Australian agency signed Pejic, they had trouble convincing others there was a future for him. “All these agencies in London said no because they didn’t know how to market me. I was too feminine for menswear, but there was never a boy who had made a lot of money doing womenswear, so it was a financial thing. I still have to prove myself to be commercially viable.”

It was in Paris that his career took off, when he worked in both men’s and women’s shows for Jean Paul Gaultier and in the men’s shows for Marc Jacobs. “That’s when I got a huge amount of recognition. It was very high end. The downside was I’d never make a lot of money from it, but the plus was I got more media attention.” Pejic is currently ranked 18 on models.com’s top 50 male models list.

Does he prefer women’s or men’s clothes? “Women’s clothes are less restrictive; I definitely have more fun with womenswear.”

How would he describe himself to somebody who’s never seen him before? “A hot tall blond!” he says with a giggle.

What makes a good model, and whom do you admire?
Somebody who just lets go and becomes a canvas for art or fashion. I admire Kristen McMenamy.

What have you eaten today?
Cereal, then a pumpkin sandwich for lunch and sushi for tea. To maintain a 25-inch waist, you can’t go round eating cakes and chocolate.

What was your worst job?
I was working in Finland on a nature shoot in a swamp, and I fell in the water and really hurt myself. We kept on shooting, and I later discovered I’d fractured a rib.

What is the worst thing anybody has said to you?
I’m not easily offended.

Would you recommend modelling to your children?
If I think they could do it, yes.

Who is your favourite designer?
Alexander McQueen and Thierry Mugler.

• Interview by Simon Hattenstone (guardian.co.uk)

londontgirls:

Fri, 01 Mar 2013 18:20:36 +0000

londontgirls:

daewoosexmachina: Amanda Ferrari She looks a lot like my...

Fri, 01 Mar 2013 16:46:04 +0000

daewoosexmachina:

Amanda Ferrari

She looks a lot like my secondlife avi. lol

Trap-Dragon: What's in a name?

Fri, 01 Mar 2013 16:44:26 +0000

Trap-Dragon: What's in a name?:

trapdragon:

Choosing a name can be surprisingly tricky. For something as personal, as encompassing as what you are known as, how others interactive with you, it should require a lot of thought.

Some people choose to masculinize/feminize their existing name - by adding an “-a” on the end for instance -…

My name - at least the first half - Nadika - means actress. Female actor. i am an actress. not as somebody who plays a role (hehe I do play a role, and i like that role) but also as a girl/tgirl who decided to act on my dysphoria and change.

Nadika - actually Nadikai - நடிகை - is from the tamil language. And something that makes me feel good.

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Sat, 19 Jan 2013 15:21:12 +0000

bignitro: She is very Beautiful…

Sat, 22 Dec 2012 22:29:17 +0000

bignitro:

She is very Beautiful…